Have you noticed that your boyfriend ignores you, pays less attention, does not give compliments, does not give flowers and does not call for a walk? No matter how painful it is, but there is a high probability that he just lost interest in you. We will tell you in this article how to make sure of this for sure and why this could happen. You will be able to analyze your behavior and use our advice to improve the situation for the better. The main thing is not to lose hope!
Change attitude young man(hereinafter - MCH) maybe even after he understands that you have a lot of shortcomings. Any little things can annoy him: talking quickly, smoking, laughing strangely, annoying you with your calls, raising your voice, etc. Claims can also be made about your appearance: according to his concepts, it turns out that you are not at all a slim girl, which you used to be were considered, and your chest is no longer large, and your hips are too wide, and it’s time to get rid of cellulite ...
The girl herself is also capable of provoking distance, for this very often it is enough for her to make just a few mistakes:
Also, do not forget about the importance of intimate relationships, if you have them. Maybe the guy is bored with the monotony, or he is tired of waiting, or you are no longer sexually attracted to him.
It is also likely that the guy could cool off if the girl just too attached to him. Men feel this, and such an attitude can only scare them and annoy them. In this case, try to relax and pay more attention to your loved one.
Naturally, if in your case there are only 1-3 signs, then you should not draw premature conclusions, perhaps your half has some kind of life difficulties. Therefore, it is best to ask her about it and make sure that this is the case.
If the guy says that everything is fine, try to talk to him frankly. Say that you do not like what is now, ask what could have contributed to this turn of events and what can be done to change the situation for the better. If a young man has cooled off towards you, but he still has some feelings somewhere inside, he will not mind the conversation. But if you see that it strains and irritates him, he begins to get nervous from the questions asked, leave immediately.
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In order for his eyes to light up again, you need to change both externally and internally. If you hated reading before - get interested in literature, did not pay enough attention to yourself - sign up for a fitness club, were a bore - start visiting nightclubs with girlfriends.
The main goal of the transformation is for him to start praying for you, and not you for him.
Our tips on how to cope with the task will help. This article has 5 steps to follow carefully. This is the key to success!
First of all, be patient, it is very difficult to arouse repeated interest in the MCH, but it is possible. For this you cannot:
If you want to return the old feelings, do not openly demonstrate that you need a guy. It can only scare him and push him away even more. Instead, try to see each other as little as possible, but if there is an opportunity to do it on purpose, use it. At the same time, you need to look perfect, be cheerful, friendly, polite, as if you don’t care what he thinks of you. Believe me, it will work, because men hate indifference!
If you live in different cities and keep in touch only by correspondence or by phone, drop everything and go to him. Do not warn him before that, make it as if the purpose of the trip was not him, but, for example, an excursion, work, study, etc. When you are already there, offer to meet and look at his communication behavior. If it is as cold as it is at a distance, ask directly if nothing happened during your absence. An honest young man who respects you will certainly tell the truth.
If you can't see, try not to talk to him on the phone, do not call him first, answer every other time. He must understand that without him your life will be as rich as with him. If this does not work, and the young man stops communicating at all, the relationship can be considered completed. In this case, write him a message that, for example, you understand that you are no longer a couple, you are very sorry if you did something wrong, you would like to correct the situation, but obviously this is not necessary. At the end, wish him happiness so that he can find a more suitable girl. Believe me, even the most indifferent person will answer something like this.
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If he still hasn’t kindled feelings for you, don’t torture yourself: let him go. To do this, just switch to your business - meet your girlfriends more often, go shopping, go in for sports, study, read books. Here you will find a selection. Try not to blame yourself, repeat to yourself that this is not your person and you are not on your way. Definitely needed. In this article, we will tell you how to do this with the help of meditation, sports and other activities.
Here is a video with some pretty sensible advice from a psychotherapist:
If necessary, meet another guy, spend time with him, go for walks and enjoy the freedom! And finally, remember, you will definitely meet the one who will always love you.
He's cold, he's so cold
Snow does not melt on his eyelashes.
There is no bad weather,
But its nature is not simple.
Am I a total stranger to him?
Whether the batteries were disconnected -
I always hang out with him
And then I get sick for two weeks.
People really need someone to warm up with ...
Everyone has already found it.
Only he has a different heart -
Small heart-refrigerator.
The fridge is a nice place
To keep love, hope, faith,
But when you bring it to the stove,
Significantly reduced in size.
He and I are vulnerable in different ways.
Proximity is not suitable for distant -
And when he does hug,
I will die of pneumonia.
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Hello, I've been dating a guy for a year and a half. He is military. Relations developed quickly. He said that he never loved, before the appearance of me. The first I have him and sexually. Like he is with me. He was very gentle, said a lot of nice words, was sociable in the social network. But two months ago he changed his attitude towards me. He became cold, began to write less, one day gentle, another day rude. He is not afraid to offend me, sometimes he says very offensive things. I tried to talk to him, said that I was worried. To which he replied: “We are fine, nothing has changed.” He says that he is very tired, since the session + work. After which I write to him what I love, but he does not answer it. I fell into depression I don't know what to think. He said that everything would be different on vacation, but when the vacation came, nothing changed. He seems to be holding me, but he doesn't seem to be.Both of you are just starting to build a relationship, and what is happening now is, in general, quite natural. Relationships don't build themselves. It is always the work of two people. And if one is not ready to invest in them, then nothing can be done.
You didn't write very much, but it also shows that for the guy your feelings and your words are not as significant as you would like. You feel that "something is wrong", you are "worried", but he does not see it or does not want to see it.
It is very important, when fighting for a relationship, not to lose yourself. You can answer yourself the question, why do you need this relationship? You write: “He seems to be holding me, but he doesn’t seem to be,” as if the guy has the power to let you go or keep you. And where are your desires, your needs and your feelings?
He is not afraid to offend you, because you allow him to. This is a question of your boundaries, a question of what kind of attitude you allow yourself. The question is how do you feel about yourself.
The current situation is a good reason to raise these questions for yourself and answer them, if you want to change something in your life.
