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Not every person with whom you have to communicate makes you want to maintain this communication with him. And it also happens that any contacts with someone we know bring us only pain, disappointment and resentment. Well, some "girlfriend" likes to ruffle our nerves, and that's it! And when the nerves fail, you ask her to remember her conscience - she is offended, begins to be rude at every opportunity, and even spreads gossip about what was and what was not!

The hardest thing is to get rid of the annoying courtship of a man when he is unpleasant to you, but with his persistence again and again he tries to melt the ice of your hostility. How to ignore the guy in this case? How to convince a man of the futility of all his attempts by his behavior? And how do you learn to ignore the guy you like, but he behaves too dismissively with you?

Different situations arise when a person becomes extremely unpleasant to us. We are offended, we worry - and we get a new portion of negativity at each meeting. Often we try to somehow influence such an acquaintance of ours, to find out the relationship with her. But there is nothing more effective in such a situation than to ignore the person with whom communication brings us so many unpleasant emotions.

We have not discovered any America now, right? But think for yourself: how many of us know how to respond to insults, gossip and insults correctly? After all, what do most of us do? Each has its own way; but not every one of them makes it possible to avoid suffering, and some only further irritate the soul. Someone does not pay attention to the offender and lives on as if nothing had happened, but there are very few of them.

And someone is crying in the corner, experiencing every unfair word addressed to him. Someone retreats into himself, becomes very closed and non-contact, someone constantly feels irritated and transfers this irritation to others who are not to blame for anything. These are the most common reactions and the list could go on. But all this is wrong behavior. And what is the right way, you ask? This is what we would like to teach you!

How to behave?

The most correct thing is to show the unpleasant person that you do not want to communicate with him anymore. That is, just stop noticing all his antics, and even himself. And here's how to do it:

• Ignoring a person is a serious decision, so consider your move and try to understand if you really want to end the relationship with the abuser forever. You should not resort to ignoring for a day or a week just to attract attention and make the person who offended you feel guilty.
• Before you end the relationship, try to understand the motives of the behavior of this person, to see not only what he did, but also why he could do it. Have you done something that could have provoked this behavior? What if you yourself offended your friend with something, and she is just trying to defend herself?
• Try to ask about the reason for this attitude towards you (if you find it possible, of course). Maybe everything is not as bad as you think, and you can resolve the situation peacefully. In any case, it is worth talking first, trying to discuss your problems, and not just throwing a person out of your life without any warning.
• Be direct. If it was not possible to establish relations, firmly tell your friend that you no longer want to know her. Don't get angry, just state your decision with courtesy. Some people do not immediately understand that such a decision can be considered and final, and continue to try to communicate. Be consistent - stop taking calls from them and don't read their messages. Don't give in to attempts to provoke you into a response. Do not argue at meetings if they cannot be avoided (if this is your employee, then do not change jobs because of an intriguer!). If the pestering is too persistent, firmly and clearly say that you want to be left alone - now and forever!
• You must understand what the consequences will be. This bore will be angry, because getting rebuffed for your intrigues is not so pleasant. Prepare to withstand the siege. Let mutual friends and acquaintances know that you are going to ignore the offender. If they ask you questions, answer them. Do not try to convince them to take your side, let them form their own opinion about the situation. Just let them know about the essence of the problem and about your position.
• Refrain from any kind of contact with the person you are ignoring. If it is a man, then it will be much easier to ignore him. But if this is a woman, then it will be more difficult! At first she will be angry with you, and then she will intensively look for an opportunity to show how bad you are, since you decided to make an empty place out of her. If you do not pay attention to all her attempts, then she will seek sympathy from other people. And what she will say about you now may even be much more painful and offensive than the one that caused all the fuss and flared up. What can be done about it? If you have the courage, keep ignoring her. With people whose opinion is important to you, you have already discussed your position, and their sympathies will quickly bow to you if you behave with dignity - unlike that scandalous person who pours dirt on you. And if she goes beyond all limits, threaten to bring her to justice for slander and insults. Sometimes it works!
• When meeting, do not be tormented by embarrassment, not knowing whether it is necessary for the sake of etiquette to greet an unpleasant person. Defiantly turning away, of course, is not worth it, but you are not obliged to say hello either. And if he turns to you, or you need to tell him something (for example, if it is necessary for work), then keep communication to a minimum as possible. And if you run into somewhere on the street or in a store, then you can generally pretend that you simply did not notice him. It’s not worth changing the pace of walking or crossing to the other side of the street - this is stupid, you see. And it will look like you are afraid of him (or her). Just look through the person, as you look at people you don't know. You did not see, and that's it! And if he wants to tell you something, pretending that nothing has happened - say that you are in a hurry and cannot linger.
• Remember to restrict access to yourself and to your personal data and social networks. Adjust your privacy settings and block your Pages so that only close friends and family can see your information and photos.

After you have done all this, you can protect yourself from communicating with a person whom you no longer want to see in your circle of acquaintances. Celebrate freedom and enjoy the tranquility!

How to Ignore a Guy Who Disdains You

There are also situations when a person does not cause rejection in you, and yet it is rather difficult to communicate with him. For example, such a situation: you quite even like a guy, but his behavior is sometimes quite offensive to you. He seems to say that he has warm feelings for you, but nevertheless he pays too little attention to you, and sometimes he is generally rather dismissive. How to properly ignore a man in such a situation to make sure that his feelings towards you are sincere?

1. Don't stay close to him when he starts acting like this. You don't deserve to be treated like this! True, you should not defiantly move away from him: in this way you will only provoke a man into a conflict. You should just calmly tell him that you do not want to spend all your free time waiting for him to choose a few hours to communicate with you, or that you do not like the way he talks or behaves with you, and therefore today you want to be without him. (just don't lose sight of the fact that sometimes a man behaves rudely or dismissively with a girl simply because of the desire to attract her attention).
2. In turn, ignore it for two or more days. Don't call him first, don't text him, don't catch his eye. If he really loves you, he will definitely get worried and try to find out where you have disappeared and whether everything is in order with you.
3. When he wants to find out what happened, talk to him calmly, without tears or reproaches. Nothing is more capable of pushing a man away than female tantrums. In addition, do not start to sort things out as soon as he approaches you. If this happened in a fairly crowded place or when you are quite busy (for example, at work or at a break between couples at the institute), then resist the temptation and do not start a conversation. The best time and place for such a conversation is when you are alone and not in a hurry.
4. Ask your friends for help. Tell them that you want to stop talking to your boyfriend for a while. They will help with advice and try to keep you from situations where you might accidentally meet the man you are trying to ignore. Only you should trust exactly those friends of yours in whom you are confident, because you want to get support from them, and not gossip about you, right?

Be patient, do not rush a man, provoking him into scandals and showdowns. It is much more effective to let him really feel that you are very unhappy with his behavior. But first, try to convey to him how you feel when he behaves inappropriately towards you. Imagine: guys never have an idea how girls feel when they are neglected!

How to ignore a guy if you're in love with him

Have you fallen in love with a man, but are afraid that your feelings can hardly find a response in his heart? Well, get it out of your head! Believe me, there are guys who are much better than the one you like now. And among them, there is probably one who is now furtively sighing, looking at you. Therefore, you can begin to ignore this particular man in order to free your heart for true love. Moreover, the situation may develop in such a way that you need to cool down your feelings for a guy who is either your friend at the same time, or you just know each other visually.

If he is one of your friends

• Don't blame yourself for falling in love with your own friend or buddy. This can happen to anyone. Just start taking the first steps towards moving away from him a little.
• Do not respond to his appeals at the same second as he called you or wrote SMS. For example, you can send a response message only after two or three hours.
• Never address him first, and if he asks you about something, then answer him in monosyllables.
• If he asks you for something, tell him that you are busy. Do not allow yourself to communicate with him for a long time. This will only worsen the situation.
• And best of all - get yourself new friends, and preferably of the opposite sex.

If you just know

• Try not to go where you can meet the guy you decide to ignore.
• Don't smile at him. A smile can betray your feelings.
• Do not ask your friends and acquaintances about it.
• Try not to think about the guy at all, since you've decided to ignore him.

What if they ignore you?

Everything happens in life. It may happen that you yourself are guilty of something. But what can I say - each of us was in such a skin when someone was pouting at us and pretending that we did not exist in the world. Brr, I don't want to remember! And if it did happen again - how to choose an attitude towards a person ignoring you in order to somehow influence his desire not to have business with you?

It all depends on whether you want to fix the situation yourself. If you don't value your relationship with the person who pouted on you, you can do the same and stop noticing him. And if you feel guilty about yourself and want to make peace, then you should settle your dispute so as not to aggravate the confrontation. Remember that it is far from always wise to continue to keep the brand and insist on your position!

One of the best things to do if you want to avoid hostility is to have a direct and open dialogue. If a person is too offended and still keeps a distance, start small - say "Hello!" at the meeting, smile. But for now, don't try to forcibly cross the border he has set. Show with all your behavior that you are sorry about your breakup. You'll see, he will thaw.

Whichever side of the crack that has arisen between you, you may be, remember - ignoring someone, very often you thereby harm yourself. It is always better to try and find a common language!

You love. But the guy who carried you in his arms recently stopped sending sweet messages every five minutes, calling in the middle of the day to find out how you were doing, and yesterday he was completely late for a date. Girlfriends convince you that ignoring is the best way to bind the person you like.

Before you decide to take such steps, think about what result you need. Do you want attention and "Shakespearean" passions? Or do you need a reliable person you can rely on? Perhaps right now you are burning with the desire to prove to everyone that you can turn guys no worse than Irochka, whose fans no one can even count?

Passions "burn out" quickly, often leaving painful traces in the soul, and many fans do not give a feeling of happiness and love. And a person who is confident in his and your feelings will not report serious intentions five times a day. He understands that you can talk in the evening, in a calm atmosphere, and in case of force majeure, you will turn to him, and if you do not call in tears, then everything is fine with you. Mutual confidence is an element of a mature relationship.

Dasha drew attention to a new colleague at a seminar organized by the company for employees in one of the Turkish hotels. Deciding to outshine everyone with a beautiful even tan at an evening banquet, she carefully smeared herself with cream and recovered to the beach. When she returned to her room, she found herself covered in spots like a cheetah - the tube turned out to be self-tanner. There was no mention of going to the event.

The next day, a handsome colleague approached her himself and asked why she was not there. He was pretty tired during the evening from attempts to flirt with the entire female part of the team, and singled out Dasha from the crowd only because she did not try to attract his attention.

Ignoring a man is necessary when he is too accustomed to female attention. Dasha did not plan such an option in advance, in this case the situation developed naturally and naturally, which only increased the effect.

Ignore will be effective if your man is a hunter by nature.

He will put all his strength to achieve the goal, to win, to win. Then the interest fades, the result does not bother him much. This feature can be quickly identified: he launches a project day and night at work, but a week after the success he has already started something new. Or, as a child, he devoted a lot of time and energy to clog training, but after winning the city competition, he abruptly quit classes. As soon as such a man realizes that he has conquered you, his feelings will be replaced by indifference. In this case, you must strictly follow the chosen tactics, be sure to pause. Light flirting with men is quite acceptable - competition is a very powerful incentive for such a person. The main thing is to keep within the bounds of decency - he will not forgive an offended sense of ownership.

The basic principle of the ignore

You already understood that before using ignore, you need to arouse interest in a man. Look how children do it - they are born psychologists. A little girl came to the playground where other children were playing. They don’t pay attention to her, then she, seeing a big beetle, says loudly: “I’m afraid!” And that's it, it's done! Half of the boys immediately run to scare her with bugs, the other half protect her. Then she turns around and goes to the swing, the boys throw the bugs and start arguing who will swing her.

Give a man the opportunity to be strong, smart and brave: ask a colleague to explain the scheme to you, ask for advice on car maintenance, ask him to walk you out of the party because it's getting late. Ask for help on trifles several times, thank you, be sure to tell me how you liked the result. And then abruptly and without comment, stop these requests, politely greet when you meet, but do not enter into a conversation, kindly apologizing, agreed on a lot of things. But keep him confident in your sympathies, smile and look into his eyes. You will see, he himself will begin to look for a reason to attract your attention. It's best to use ignore after a successful flirt, perhaps even at the start of a romantic relationship.

If you hurry, you can scare a man away with your indifference.

Hidden threat

Ignore tactics can bring great results, but they must be used very carefully. You must understand that this is a form of manipulation. A man will be interested in you, but this does not mean that sympathy and love will automatically appear. Their place can be taken by painful attachment, turning into addiction. A man artificially deprived of freedom of choice can become obsessive, suspicious and even aggressive. Both of you will suffer in such a situation, and a happy end will not be the result of a relationship that will not bring happiness. Be careful if you're trying to improve an existing relationship by ignoring. Indifference does not intrigue close people, but it hurts.

You have already figured out in which cases it is worth using such a technique as ignoring a man, you have studied the “pitfalls” and are ready to act.
Be gentle, sweet and polite if you refuse to meet him. Be sure to express sincere regret that things have turned out this way.

You can’t refuse all the time - a man will decide that you are not interested in him. It is better to refuse the meeting several times, and reschedule a couple of times for a convenient time for you. You can agree to a date, but at the last moment, call and apologize, citing a change in plans.

It is important that the initiator of the date to which you agree is a man. But pay special attention to details. If you are going on a country walk, take food with you: bake pies or just cut sandwiches. For a walk around the city, make an approximate route and find out a couple of interesting facts about the streets, houses, monuments, or come up with a funny “life story” that will enliven the conversation. You should not go to the theater or cinema on first dates - there will be no opportunity to chat. An exception may be the option of visiting a cafe or restaurant during the evening. Then you will have one more convenient topic for communication and exchange of impressions. The date that you give a man with the tactics of ignoring should be very bright, memorable and unusual.

On dates during this period, you can not be sarcastic or capricious. A man should see all the positive character traits of the one he has been seeking for so long.

With the right strategy of ignoring, you can have the perfect relationship. Remember that this is a delicate and complex process that will require iron willpower from you. And if you want to attract the attention of a handsome, but timid and shy guy, you better choose a different path.

Finally, an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to "read" men. Like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man - and you immediately know everything about him and understand what is on his mind. You would be able to get any man and have an ideal relationship and would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

Who said it's impossible? Of course, you won’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

We advise you to pay attention to the master class from Nadezhda Mayer. She is a PhD in Psychology, and her methodology has helped many girls to have perfect relationships and feel loved.

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Are you going to ignore the guy you like in order to get more attention from him? Or do you want to ignore him because you know you can't do anything with him (even if you still like him)? Fortunately, keeping simple tips and by keeping yourself under control, you can easily ignore the guy you like in order to hook him even more or break up with him forever.

Steps

Ignore a guy to get his attention

Wait a while before replying to his messages. When you get a message from a guy you like, it's very hard to keep a cool head. Of course, you want to answer it right away. Take your time! If you make a guy wait a bit, chances are you'll get his attention.

• Wait about an hour (if it's a direct and specific question) or even a few hours (if it's just "hello"), and then answer.
• It might be better to set a timer or reminder for yourself.

1. Don't start a conversation. When you think of a guy, everything in the world will remind you of him. You may want to write to him, send him a song, or suggest some interesting activity. Instead, just wait until he wants to contact you.

   • You can write in a notebook what you want to say to him.
   • Thus, when the guy himself starts a conversation with you, you will already have several successful phrases prepared.

2. Flirt with other guys. If you're at a party with a guy you like, be a little flirtatious with the other guys. Let the guy you like see you dancing with another guy or putting your hand on his shoulder. Let him see that you are laughing and having fun. This will definitely make him want you even more!

   • At a party, approach a friend and say something funny.
   • Find some excuse to stand next to the other guy, talk to him, or touch him.

3. Show the guy that you are a busy girl. You will become even more attractive to him if the guy realizes that he does not take up all your free time. Find interesting ways to spend your time. For example, you can meet friends, join a hobby club, or plan your own affairs. Make the guy fit into your personal schedule if he wants to spend time with you.

   • If he calls you and invites you somewhere on Friday evening, say: “I would love to, but I already have plans for Friday. Can we meet on Saturday?

4. Give him enough personal space. If a guy prefers playing basketball with his friends over going to the movies with you, don't push it. Drop that idea and plan to do something with your friends. When a guy notices that he doesn’t have much space in your life, you will definitely interest him.

   • If the guy is planning to date someone else and it's upsetting you, choose someone you trust to talk it over with.
   • However, it is worth making sure that you are still attracted to the guy, and he is not going to leave you. If at first you had plans with him, but then he easily changes them (and this happens not for the first time), it may be time to forget about him forever.

   Ignored in other ways

   1. Wait a few days before answering his question or invitation. If you want to ignore the guy with more subtle innuendos, a great option is to wait a few days before agreeing to spend time with him. If a guy wants to meet outside of school, you can answer that you would love to meet him, but you don’t know yet when you will have time.

      • When a guy invites you to spend time together, tell him that you can answer for sure later.
      • Please wait 1-3 days before accepting.

   2. Get the guy to fit into your schedule. If the guy you like wants to spend time with you, agree when it's convenient for you. Don't change your plans to accommodate him. This is a great way to become inaccessible and ignore the guy with subtle hints.

      • For your plan to work, you need to always be busy.
      • Fill your time with something interesting: you can go for a manicure, meet up with friends, or go to the bookstore to find something new to read.

   3. Make him jealous. Another effective way to get a guy's attention is to pay attention to someone else. Make a guy jealous a little - it will remind him how valuable you are to him, and he will give you the attention you deserve.

      • You can make a guy jealous by texting someone else.
      • Another way is to show the guy how you communicate and have fun in the company of other guys.
      • But don't go too far. You just need to make the guy a little jealous, not lose him.

   4. You can slightly hint to the guy that you doubt whether to continue your relationship. If you're already dating this guy, but he doesn't treat you the way you'd like, it might be worth hinting to the guy that you're considering breaking up with him. If you are really important to this guy, he will pay attention to you and make sure that you stay with him.

      • Tell your boyfriend about your plans for the summer (as if you were planning to spend the summer without him).
      • Perhaps you have plans to go to camp or on a family trip.
      • When the conversation turns to the future (for example, what will happen when you graduate from high school or college), you can say something like: "Well, it's too early to talk about what will happen to us."

   Ignore the guy to break up with him

   1. Let the guy understand that everything is over between you. If you decide that you want to end this relationship permanently, let us know. Talk to him in person (not over the phone) and be very clear. Don't make him think that you just want a break, or that he needs to wait until you get back.

      • You can say: “Our relationship is not developing. I don't want to continue them anymore."
      • You can say, “This relationship has already gone its way. I want to try something new."

   2. Remove his number from your contacts. If you're trying to get over a guy (even if you still have feelings for him), just ignore him. Start by deleting his number from your phone. If you can't just call him or send a message, you'll be less likely to get in touch with him somehow.

It can be quite difficult to ignore someone, especially if you constantly run into this person on your way, if he tries to talk to you or does not quite understand what is happening. But if you really need to ignore this person, then try to look very busy with your business, change your usual way of life and cut off all contact with this person. Check out the following tips on how to ignore someone.

Steps

Use body language

1. Don't look this person in the eye. Not making eye contact is the best way to ignore people. Once your eyes meet, it will show that you are aware of the existence of this person, and your efforts to ignore him will be in vain. If this person is in close proximity to you, avoid making eye contact at all costs. Look at everyone except him, look in front of you or just at the floor.

   • If a person is shorter than you, then just look over his head. If it is higher, then do not look up.
   • If he is the same height as you and is standing nearby, try to portray an absent, indifferent look in case you accidentally meet his eyes.

2. Pass by quickly. Another way to ignore a person is to walk as fast as possible. This will show that you are a busy person, you have time to do a lot of things, and that you have no desire to stop and talk to this person. Walk with your head held high and look like you're in a hurry, even if you're not.

   • If you see this person approaching you from afar, step back a little so you don't accidentally bump into him.
   • Do not turn to the side to get around your enemy. If you cross or turn on the other side of the road, it will show that you care. However, if you see him in the distance and are sure that he does not see you, then it is better indeed to turn off your path and out of sight.

3. Depict some kind of "closedness". If you happen to be near this person, fold your arms across your chest, cross your legs if you're sitting, hunch over a bit, and generally do everything to appear completely out of reach. Your body should say for itself: "Don't talk to me, buddy," and most likely your enemy will understand this hint.

   • Don't smile. Let your face be serious, even a little sullen, to show that you do not want to talk to anyone.
   • You can also draw a face with a blank and meaningless expression that will scare away anyone who tries to talk to you.
   • If you have long hair, bangs, or you are wearing a hat, then try to cover part of your face so that you do not have to look into the eyes of this person.

4. Try to look like you are very busy. You can look either closed off from everything around you, or very, very busy, so much so that you simply cannot take a second of your time for empty chatter with this person.

   • If you are currently with friends, then turn to face them and start something animatedly discussing and gesticulating. This will show that you are too busy to talk or look in anyone's direction.
   • If you are alone, immerse yourself in a book, magazine, or textbook. You can even quietly read aloud, as if you were memorizing something.
   • Always keep a lot of different items in your hands. When you walk or sit, hold your phone, textbooks, or a huge indoor flower in a pot in your hands. Seeing how busy you are, this person will not start a conversation with you.

Use technology

1. Use your phone. This will help you ignore any person. There are several ways to use the phone for this purpose. First, you can stare at the phone to look busy as soon as you see your enemy. You can talk to someone on the phone, laugh wildly, or dive headlong into correspondence with someone with whom you would like to communicate at the moment.

   • Change your phone number so this person can't call or text you.
   • Block him in your contacts so you don't receive messages from him.
   • Set your phone to ring when you are near that person so you can pick up the phone and pretend to be talking to someone.

2. Listen to music. Buy headphones and always wear them when you're alone, even if you're not listening to music. When you see your enemy, turn up the music to the fullest and shake your head to the beat in order to look completely absorbed and busy with your own business and not wanting to spend a single minute of your time talking.

   • If you really want to annoy, you can also close your eyes and sing along to the music so that the person does not have the slightest chance of talking to you.

3. Ignore online. Ignoring on the Internet is much easier than ignoring a person in real life because you won't have to avoid meeting him. In this case, you just need to ignore emails, Facebook posts, Twitter notes, and any other messages on the network.

   • Block this person on your social networks. Make sure he can't contact you online.
   • Change your email address and virtual nicknames if necessary. Your enemy should not have a single way to get in touch with you on the network.

Change your habits

1. Take a different route. If you want to ignore someone and not meet them every time you go, the easiest thing to do is just change the route you normally take. If you always meet your enemy on the way in between classes, then take a different, longer path to the next lesson so as not to see this person. If you constantly meet him at work, then go down another hallway and use another restroom to keep contact to a minimum.

   • If you meet him wherever you go, then start driving.
   • If your enemy also changed his route in order to catch your eye again, then keep changing your route until he gets tired of this stupid game.

2. Avoid places where your enemy likes to be. It's elementary. If you know his favorite bars, restaurants and parks, just don't go there anymore. It's not worth it, however, if you're willing to spend enough time there and continuously ignore the person, you can try.

   • You can also remember the days when he usually goes there. If he visits his favorite restaurant on the weekends, and you really want to go there, then try to visit there during the week.
   • If he only goes to his restaurant during discount hours, then you can visit there a little later in the evening.

3. Go to places where your enemy will never go. For example, if he prefers meat dishes, then look for restaurants in your area that serve vegetarian dishes. If he hates jazz, then go to a jazz concert in your area. If he is at enmity with one of your friends, then at this friend’s party you are unlikely to meet your enemy and be able to have a good time.

   • Visiting places and institutions where this person does not go will help you not only ignore him, but will also open up new and unexplored horizons for you.

Ignore anyone in any situation

1. Ignore anyone at school. It might not be easy, especially if you're in the same class, but you can still find a way. Here's how to do it:

   • If you are seated at the same desk as this person, move to another desk. If everyone has their own place in the class, then ask the teacher to transplant you.
   • If you see him at the school canteen, then sit at another table.
   • If you meet him in the hallway of the school, then just look straight ahead, as if you were in such a hurry to the next lesson that you did not notice how you passed this person.
   • If he asks you a question in class, turn your head away as if nothing happened.

2. Ignore someone at work. This can be quite tricky as you may be sitting next to your enemy or even working on the same project. Anyway, there are several ways to minimize contact.

   • Do not enter the office kitchen or break room while this person is there. Remember when he usually eats in the kitchen or pours himself coffee, and try to have lunch and rest at other times if possible.
   • If you are sitting next to your enemy in the office, then try to focus on working on the computer, and also always have a pile of work papers on hand so that you can immerse yourself in them instead of looking in his direction.
   • This should not affect your professional activities. If you need to discuss something with this person on business matters, discuss it. He will be even more frustrated if you talk to him at work and completely ignore him outside of the workspace.

3. Ignore someone socially. It's easy enough if you know what to do. You need to rely on your friends and try to stay as far away from this person as possible, even if you are in the same room. Here's what you can do:

   • Surround yourself with friends. Talk to them and laugh like you've never heard anything funnier in your life.
   • Dance. If your enemy approaches you and music is playing, immediately grab your friend and go dancing. If he does approach you on the dance floor, close your eyes as if enjoying the music.
   • If he is in the same circle of friends as you, then immerse yourself in an active conversation with one of your friends. When he starts talking, start scratching your ear or staring at the phone, in a word, act like nothing is happening.

What wise tricks does a woman need to do so that her beloved man wants to be there always? Sometimes we are surprised how caring and constant intimacy destroy relationships and drive a man into his personal “cave of loneliness”. Why is this happening, and how to refresh the relationship?

We will explain what guides a modern man in relations with a woman, and how to keep this capricious man.

How to keep a man

According to psychologists, the strongest and most lasting attachment of a man is one in which a woman gives him visible freedom in actions and deeds. In such a relationship, a man connects with his beloved woman with a strong thread, fearing to lose her trust forever, and most importantly, love.

Why are men so often reluctant to be in a relationship? Whether it is an early stage or a crisis period of marriage, often a woman notices that a man's attention begins to wander, and interest in a previously beloved companion is cooling down. The first thing you want to do in such a situation, of course, is to talk. If a man claims that everything is in order, but continues in the same spirit, it's time to act.

And that's what these same men recommend ... In such a situation, a woman needs to reduce affection and attention to her beloved as much as possible. It seems that such advice is stupid, but in practice it works better than the most sophisticated female tricks.

If you give a man a feeling of separation, make him bored and fear for the future of your relationship, he will certainly settle down and begin to think that he can lose the most valuable thing he has - you.

Unfortunately, most women act quite differently. Excitement and digging in relationships drive a man even deeper into his own “cave”, where he will try to meet an 18-year-old scoundrel and forget himself. The secret is simple: the more you hold on to a man, the more he will despise you.

What to do? Start acting like him! Get off him eventually and start living your social life. By giving your beloved man a personal space, you will give him a chance to feel the joy of life again, and when the man is ready, he will return. Why? Yes, because he does not want to be alone, no matter how hard he tries to show it.

No matter how shocking such advice is, it is worth listening to all the ladies. If a man loves you, such a trick will help you refresh the relationship. Well, if the feelings of a man have really cooled down, you will be able to understand this in time and not waste precious years on an unsuccessful marriage.